The day started out on a bad note. It was cloudy outside. Matt and I were excited to have a whole day together with Clay to go exploring and show him a beautiful part of TN that we found on our honeymoon eleven years ago. For Clay, getting up early, he was cranky. It was difficult by not only leaving an hour or so later than planned, but just wanting to call it off so that the crankiness would end.
We got into the park about 2 hours later and headed towards Clingman's Dome with everyone finally calmed down and enjoying the climb into the mountains, the fall colors of green, red, gold, yellow, orange beginning to peak their heads out of the wood surrounding the road and the river flowing alongside parkway it was a half-way decent trip to the parking area.
It was a very busy weekend in the park. It was so popular Matt had to park quite a ways from the parking area down the mountain and walk back up to where he let Clay and I out at the parking area. I had to go to the restroom and that was an adventure in itself. The restrooms were outhouses with a modern toilet seat over the hole dug in the ground. When you first walk in it looks like any restroom minus a sink , must use sanitizer, until you notice the odor. A very unpleasant odor that really wants you to turn and leave. When using the restroom, you want to be very careful not to sit as there is a breeze coming from below. It was an experience to say the least. Next time, I think I will take some Lysol wipes and air freshener or body spray (that can substitute the air freshener) and baby wipes.
Outside the wind was blowing fiercely and cold. The hike itself is to the highest point on the Appalachian Trail and 300 feet up in 0.5 miles. It is a steep, but gorgeous climb. It takes determination, patience, and really paying attention to your body and limitations as you climb this paved trail. There are benches about every tenth of a mile and outcroppings of rocks that make perfect seats all the way up to the dome.
Along the way, I had to sit down and catch my breath much more than Matt and Clay, but it wasn't a total waste as I met several people. First, we met a man and woman from Michigan, I believe. I could be wrong about from where. He was a pastor of a church and an adoptive parent which was something that we could relate to. It was a nice few minutes just to sit and connect. I think that was the 2 bench along the trail. Around bench 3 or maybe even 4, we met two women hiking up, also and as I sat there trying to catch my breath and Matt saying I could quit if I wanted, they were great encouragers as to let me know I was at the halfway point and it was ok to sit and just continue the journey up the mountain as that was what they were for and it was everyone struggling just in different ways with the same goal as reaching the top. It was something, I needed to hear. I have to say this. I stopped at each bench, each outcropping of rocks, and being told I could quit at each one (just to push me as he knew that was the best way to get me to keep going, I will prove someone wrong when I know I can do something and with fierce determination, also), but I kept on going. At one point a man going the same way that was walking quicker and easier and without stopping said " your almost there you can do this! Good Job!" was just the few examples of a combination of what was needed to hear.
The women were right, we were halfway there and soon after we were at the top. I did it!!!! The goal is to do it better next time, but at the same time if I hadn't been stopping we wouldn't have met some pretty cool people.
On the trail as you climbed there was a point where the sun was shining bright, the wind died down and it warmed up until you got near the top and the wind and chill was back at full force. It was a clear day that would allow you to see, I believe they said 5 states. It was gorgeous. I DID IT!!!!!!
On the way down, as I could relax and breath and just walk. I was able to think and I realized that life is like that trail, that journey. There are more times that not that life is hard and a struggle. It can just down right stink, and be uncomfortable, but if you keep putting one foot in front of the other, take a seat and stay in a place when you need to and allow the people around you to be themselves and accept them for who they are you can find friends, acquaintances, answers, just the joy of waiting for a brief time from the exertion and hardship of the climb. It isn't easy, nothing is, but with your loved ones their by your side and pushing you when needed, support in the others, and just the rejoicing of making it to the top that goal it is doable. Not easy, but doable. It is a journey just like every part of life.
It was a gorgeous walk back to the car and drive through the park. We had a good day for the most part and just enjoyed time at the Christmas Place store and eating before heading home. It was a nice day and one we enjoyed. I hope you enjoy the pictures posted.















